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Having Multiple Girlfriends?

Every once in a while, I get this question from one of you, either in the comments here or in my email. It usually goes something like this: Hey BD, you say that when you have an OLTR girlfriend or wife, you can’t have any other OLTR’s (girlfriends or wives) or MLTR‘s; you can just... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 21, 2017, noon

How To Identify Alphas and Betas, Star Trek Style

Gonna try something very different today. How you guys react to it will determine if I do something again like it in the future. For a long time now, I’ve received many emails and comments requesting an article about how to identify Alpha Males and beta males. I never thought of an entertaining or interesting... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 18, 2017, noon

Getting Started with Alpha 2.0 Later in Life

When you read about all the aspects of Alpha Male 2.0 that I describe on this blog as well as in great detail in my book, including having location independent income, nonmonogamous relationships with multiple women, and a higher income on a lower amount of work hours per week, it’s easy to visualize how to... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 14, 2017, noon

Morals and Ethics

Longtime readers might notice that while I always discuss the issue of long-term happiness, as well as positive personal aspects such as honesty, perseverance, and resistance from Societal Programming, I never discuss the issue of morality and ethics. This is not an oversight. There is a very specific reason why I’ve always avoided those topics.... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 11, 2017, noon

Getting Horny – The Difference Between Men and Women

A while back, I wrote two articles on men’s levels of sex drive and women’s levels of sex drive. I highly suggest you read both of them, as they highlight the distinct differences between the ways in which men and women experience sexual desire. This article today is both a simplification and clarification of how... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 7, 2017, noon

Q&A Today: Ask Blackdragon’s Girlfriend Anything!

Something a little different today. I thought it might be educational to provide a viewpoint on a serious, non-monogamous relationship from the female perspective. It’s not often women (or men!) publicly talk about this topic, so this is one of the rare times you’ll get some insight on this. Today, instead of writing an article... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 4, 2017, noon

The Story of My History with Women – Part 6 – My First Nonmono Relationship

This is the sixth installment of the book that I never published regarding my history with women and the lessons I learned from it. If you haven’t yet, you should read parts one, two, three, four, and five before you read the article below, so you can be up to speed on where the story... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 31, 2017, noon

Joss Whedon –The Stupidity of Male Feminists and the Women Who Buy Their Bullshit

Because god loves me and smiles down upon everything I do, he sometimes sends me miraculous and wonderful gifts that bring further joy and entertainment to my already bright life. Something has just happened that is so hilarious that I don’t think even the most talented fiction writers could have thought it up. Joss Whedon,... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 28, 2017, noon

My Reponses To Men Who Are Pro-Cheating

Fair warning, this is one of those articles that is going to make a lot of you upset, and one that I know will be linked to from various websites where guys are going to be furious about this. Good. Many years ago, guys who promoted nonmonogamy like me were often attacked by pro-monogamy people... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 24, 2017, noon

How To Avoid Women’s Negative Aura

There’s an old saying, “Never stick your dick in crazy.” The concern many men have is that if you have sex with a woman who is real trouble, you’ll end up with trouble in your life. As I’ve discussed many times before, this isn’t an issue if you simply keep these women as FB’s and... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 21, 2017, noon

The 3 Levels of Dating Mastery

When talking about dating and relationship techniques, I will refer to those who are “beginners,” those who are at an “intermediate” level of skill, and those who are “advanced.” I’ve received some questions about this, and about how I’ve never clarified what these terms actually mean. It’s only fair that if I use these terms,... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 17, 2017, noon

Women You Should NOT Have Sex With

I am notorious in manosphere / PUA circles for saying that, when you’re meeting new women and looking to have sex or build up a roster of nonmonogamous relationships, you shouldn’t “screen” women at all, for any reason. You should simply have sex with every woman you find attractive. I described why in both my... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 14, 2017, noon

Join Me for Business Seminars and Coaching in Philadelphia!

I’ve been doing business seminars in Europe and Asia lately, and enough of you Americans have been bugging me to do them in the US as well. Wish granted. In a big way… Next month, September, in Philadelphia, I will do the most comprehensive, full-blown Alpha 2.0 business seminar I’ve ever done in my life,... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 10, 2017, noon

Internal vs. External Solutions – Part 2

A few weeks back, I published an article here called The Stupidity of Looking for External Solutions. While it upset many of you more politically-minded folks both on the left and the right (as I knew it would), it became the most re-posted, re-tweeted, and shared article in the seven-year history of this blog. Clearly,... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 7, 2017, noon

When Men (Alpha 1.0’s) Get Too Controlling

Being Alpha is good. Being Alpha is better than being a beta in literally every way. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t go too far with being an Alpha. In the past, I have talked about hyper-extreme Alpha Male 1.0 celebrity examples like Tom Cruise, Charlie Sheen, Russell Brand, and David Petraeus and the chaos... Continue Reading →

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Aug. 3, 2017, noon

Great Blackdragon Debate 5: Less Options for a Great Mate?

Once again I am proud to present to you the next Great Blackdragon Debate, where I give one of you, my readers, an opportunity to debate me one-on-one on an issue you disagree with, to show the world how wrong I am. Or not. Always, we will debate below, and you will decide who won... Continue Reading →

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July 31, 2017, noon

How To Convert Your Monogamous Girlfriend to An Open One

I have an entire book on how to convert a monogamous marriage or monogamous live-in (nonmarried) relationship to an open one. It’s right here, and if you are currently living with a woman in a monogamous relationship or marriage, I strongly suggest you get that book right now so you can actually start living like... Continue Reading →

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The Blackdragon Blog
July 27, 2017, noon

Chart – The Typical Man As He Ages

Click to zoom: Remember that this is the typical man. There are exceptions to the rule, and the exceptions prove the rule.

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The Blackdragon Blog
July 24, 2017, noon

Managing Your Nonmonogamous Relationships In Social Environments

Today I’m going to address one of the most common questions you guys ask me about nonmonogamous relationships; those addressing how to handle them in social situations. What should you call her when you go to a party or meet your friends? What do you put on your Facebook page? What if people give her... Continue Reading →

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The Blackdragon Blog
July 20, 2017, noon

How Hollywood Poisons Your Relationships

One of my recurring themes is how false Societal Programming continually damages your life by filling your subconscious mind with a constant array of sweet-sounding bullshit that compels you to engage in all the wrong decisions and actions for your life; decisions and actions that cause long-term pain and suffering for both you and those... Continue Reading →

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July 17, 2017, noon